Three Things to Say to your Argumentative Mate

Mate, meaning romantic partner. What can you say when you’re in an argument and you want to turn things around? Lots of things. Here are three of them that are particularly useful for steering arguments in a positive direction. Put yourself there. You’re in a fight with your partner. Things are heating up and you…

By threewins October 4, 2018 Off

The Change Technique Every Life Coach Should Know

One technique every life coach should know? NLP. Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a method of personal change that originated at UC Santa Cruz in the early 1970’s. For 50 years NLP has been a grass-roots movement that has spread into nearly every industry. Most people don’t know what NLP is, so you might want to…

By threewins June 22, 2018 Off

How the NLP Meta Model Transforms Distorted Beliefs that Cause Stress: Real Life Examples from a Current Online Student

The NLP Meta Model is a systematic way of asking questions to get more and more specific answers. A product of neuro-linguistic programming training, the Meta Model serves as the foundation for gathering information during conversation. The companion to the Meta Model is the Milton Model, which is commonly taught in hypnotherapy training. Meagan Martin,…

By threewins June 8, 2018 Off

Neuro-Linguistic Programming: Three Perceptual Positions that Help you Sort Out Relationships

Neuro-Linguistic Programming: Three Perceptual Positions that Help you Sort Out Relationships

This is a preamble to an upcoming iNLP Center webinar about the Perceptual Positions model in Neuro-Linguistic Programming. This may be the only relationship model you need to maintain healthy, balanced and mutually rewarding connections. That’s quite a claim. Can Perceptual Positions deliver? Let’s see. Introduction to NLP Perceptual Positions. I borrowed this nifty little…

By threewins May 1, 2018 Off

This Alternative to Staying Positive Works Better

[easy-social-share] Staying positive lately? You don’t need to. In this post: • How positive thinking backfires on some. • The alternative to staying positive 24/7. • Three-step thought experiment you can try. Some people believe staying positive 24/7 is healthy, but they’re wrong. Since Normal Vincent Peal’s Power of Positive Thinking, we’ve been inundated with…

By threewins March 27, 2017 Off